I wrote this blog six years ago (Dec. 2014) as “Thanks for the Laugh!”. I’m reposting it today because I just found out that the new owners need our help. Please check out their GoFundMe page and share, as the fundraiser may only be up until the end of 2020. And if you’re local, please stop in for a visit. Thank you so much!
We walked into Miller Brothers’ Creamery last night at 4:55, not realizing that they close at 5 o’clock. Quickly, we got to the business of ordering ice cream to bring to the tackle shop to share with John. One more customer snuck in behind us, looking for two scoops of chocolate ice cream. Irene, the 89-year-old store owner, lifted her right arm with a bright pink cast on it, and politely asked him to wait his turn, as she would not be able to scoop his ice cream. I smiled at Irene, held up my purple-casted right arm and said, “We’re twins!”
While the gal scooped our ice cream, Irene and I proceeded to commiserate about being right-handed with casted right arms. Left-handed eating, teeth-brushing, face-washing, showering, dressing, etc. We also shared how thankful we are that we have friends and family to help us.
As we left with our ice cream, I said goodbye to Irene, and she said, “Thanks for the laugh!” Walking out to the car, the kids asked me, “What did she mean by that, Mom?” I explained that knowing that someone else is going through what you are, and being able to laugh about it together, certainly does ease the burden. Reminds me of the quote my friend Rita just shared in her blog that I read yesterday:
“Friends multiply our joys and divide our sorrows.”
The last 11 days have been full of ups and downs, joys and sorrows. Thankfully, there have been a lot more ups than downs, thanks to the wonderful people that God has surrounded me with. I apologize in advance if I miss your name, but I specifically want to thank my mom, my dad, John, Joshua, Jordan Rose, my brother Rick, the roller rink manager Cheryl, the doctors and nurses I’ve seen, all of the K-Rock families, our waitress at Louie’s Ham, Rita and her friends, Laura who called and chatted and laughed this morning, and of course Ms. Irene from Miller Brothers’ Creamery. You have all multiplied my joy and divided my sorrow. Thanks for the laughs!
In case you’re reading this after the GoFundMe page has been taken down, here is the story behind the fundraiser (written in October 2020):
Hello everyone. My name is Amanda Herrmann and I live down the street from the iconic landmark, Miller Brother’s Creamery in Mount Clemens, Michigan. A week ago, I learned that the business was in danger of closing. Covid-19, Road Construction and dishonest contractors are some of the obstacles that this family has had to face and is unable to pay their bills. My disabled veteran father has gotten to know the owners & the staff since taking it over 2 years ago. He asked me a week ago if I could set up a go fund me and help them. I said I would talk to the owners and hear their story. Tuesday, I met the owners, Glenn & Tiffany and they told the story of how they bought the business 2 years ago and why. It touched my heart. 93-year-old Irene, who spent 63 years of her life in that store, approached them to buy the iconic Creamery after turning down a handful of offers. These offers came with a price. They wanted to tear the landmark down. Irene couldn’t bear the thought. She approached Glenn and Tiffany who had become like grandchildren to her. Tiffany resisted. They had a successful business and four kids to take care of. Irene whom they now called “Oma” made an impact. They sold their transportation company that bussed kids to many of the private schools here in Macomb County and took a leap of faith. Glenn had a vision for the business to start selling food to help the business increase sales and to help survive the slow winter months. To start selling food though, they would have to renovate a building built in 1937 and bring the building up to current health department codes which has been a long and costly endeavor. They’ve kept a positive attitude and pitched in as a family. With their faith, they were going to get through this. Since Covid hit, sales have been way down and the funds to finish the upgrades have been low. Glenn & Tiffany tried to get help in every way to save their business. They even applied for the Covid relief loans and grants. The small amount they qualified for was astonishing to me compared to what other small businesses received. In early September, road construction started. It’s still going. Their business is RIGHT in the center of it and has brought already slow sales to a crawl. If you ask them about it, they’ll tell you it’s in God’s hands. They’ve gone through so much themselves but they are still helping people who can’t afford to pay for their own groceries. These are really great people! I asked them some really deep questions and God is putting it on my heart to help them. I’m setting a goal for $10,000.00 to help them get caught up with their business and personal bills and to help finish the renovations to get the food started which will help them sustain themselves. Even though our world seems so dark right now, I know that there are more good people out there than bad. I know that I live in a community where people support small and local businesses. A community where people want to see others succeed. I have faith that this go fund me will reach many people and will touch their hearts, as it did mine. I am asking all my community members for help. Even if you can’t donate, please share this post. I know there are people out there looking for places to give money to for charity. I believe in my heart that these people deserve it. They are kind-hearted and hard-working. God bless you all❤️
Miller Brothers is located at 149 Dickinson in Mount Clemens if you would like to stop in and support!
And here’s an update from owner, Glenn Deceuninck, posted on 12-18-20:
I would just like to say thank you from the bottom of our hearts for everyone that helped make this go fund me a success. This go fund me is the only reason that our doors are still open. We have accomplished a lot and our food should be starting by the new year. Although this money had helped us stay open we are not totally out of the woods yet, so I will leave this page up until the end of the year for the folks that would still like to help. The best way to help would be to visit the store if you can, we would love to see you. Merry Christmas to all and God bless!
God is so smart. He knew exactly what He was doing when He chose to teach us about boundaries with sleepovers and birthday parties at a Growing Families International (GFI) conference back in 2009. I had no idea how this one teaching would shape our family over our kids’ combined 8 years in the Middle Years (2010 to 2018).
At the conference, during a “lunch and learn” breakout session, the couple teaching asked if we would like to hear their family’s perspective on sleepovers and birthday parties. We enthusiastically agreed. Their family decided that birthdays were special, but that they wanted to celebrate them at home as a family without “inviting the neighborhood”. They also decided that play dates should end before bedtime and sleeping should be done at home. They had several reasons for making these decisions, including their children’s safety when not under their supervision, the financial strain of numerous birthday parties, and the time involved.
As we drove home from the conference, with so much new information in our “parenting tool box”, we decided that we needed to pick one topic to focus on. This was the topic we chose and it was an easy one to implement, since our kids were only 3 and 7 at the time. Our son had a best friend since kindergarten, who he was already spending a lot of time with, and we made an exception for them, as we had a close relationship with their family.
What I didn’t know in 2009 was that we would open our first fishing bait and tackle store at the end of 2011, and that I would have a nervous breakdown shortly thereafter when Joshua was 9 and Jordan was only 5. Keeping our children close to home, close to our business, and not “shipped off” here and there was so important. In the beginning of this crisis, we were fortunate to have friends help with public school drop off and pick up, but as I got healthier, I realized that part of my healing included taking over those tasks.
“The fifteen hundred days of preadolescence are all the time you have to prepare your kids for the nearly thirty-seven hundred days of adolescence. Let’s make the most of every minute.” – Robert Bucknam, MD, from the “PreTeen Wise” foreward
I wanted to make the most of every minute. John was extremely busy with his full time job and with the new tackle store and, whatever time he did have available, needed to be with me and the kids. Building our family identity happened in large part because we were always together. If our kids weren’t at school or at a church activity, they were most likely at home. Yes, Joshua spent time with his best friend and Jordan spent time with my parents, but these were all like-minded influences.
Leading your children from your authority is critical when your children are young and you’re establishing first-time obedience. But it definitely works against us when we get to the Middle Years. Moving from “leading from your authority” to “leading from your influence” could be the hardest task you’ll ever face in your parenting, but it pays such dividends. You’ve spent years “filling your child’s moral warehouse”, and now it’s time to see what’s really in there.
Think about this. God doesn’t ask His children questions because He doesn’t know the answers. God asks us questions to pull out of us what is inside, clarifying for us what we really believe. Just as God plants seeds of wisdom into us as we grow in maturity with Him, we as parents also plant seeds of wisdom into our children (“filling their moral warehouse”). It is our job to ask questions of our children, pulling out of them what is inside, clarifying for them what they really believe. If we’ve done our job well (with the Lord’s help, of course, as none of us are perfect parents), those seeds of wisdom grow over time and our children will be able to verbalize what they’ve internalized, further solidifying their beliefs for themselves.
We don’t want our children to act a certain way because “Mom said so”. We want their behavior to reflect what they truly believe inside. And the only way to do that is to pull that back out of them time and time again, just as God does with us.
Now that our kids are 14 and (almost) 18, they fully participate in family decisions and we consider their input carefully. We have made conscious decisions together to allow a sleepover or a birthday party here and there, allowing our kids to give their reasons, cite potential issues, and explain what they will and won’t participate in. It’s put the responsibility for their behavior in their court, not because “my parents said I can’t”, but because they’ve thought through the consequences of their actions ahead of time. Owning their own behavior has made all the difference.
Update 4-13-20: Unfortunately, all Kensington Church mission trips for the remainder of 2020 have been cancelled due to COVID-19. But feel free to read about our 2013 trip below. Thank you!
In 2013, when Joshua was 11, he and I were blessed to be able to go on a mission trip to Costa Rica with Joshua Expeditions through Kensington Church. I’m thrilled to announce that we’re going back in 2020 and bringing Jordan Rose with us. 🙂 I see this as a “launching” trip, as Joshua will have graduated from high school (18) and Jordan will be heading into high school (14). Joshua will be able to put all of his engineering and woodworking experience into helping the construction team build a house for a local family. And I’ll be blessed to be able to watch Jordan use all of her childcare experience while we both work with the kids’ camp.
Here’s how you can help. First, we would love your prayers over this trip, the participants and the people we’ll meet there. Your prayers are powerful and effective. Thank you!
Second, if you would like to make a financial contribution to our trip, we would be so very grateful. Simply click on the following link, scroll down to click “Donate to a Participant” and you’ll find our names alphabetical by first name in the drop-down menu. If you don’t already have an account with Kensington, you’ll need to create one (user name, password, email, pretty basic stuff) and then your gift will be tax-deductible.
And here’s the blog I wrote in 2013, each night from our hotel room, in its entirety. This was also posted in 2016 as “Costa Rica 2013“, so it’s entirely possible that you’ve read this before. If not, it will give you an idea of what we’ll be doing in 2020. Enjoy!
Friday 7-5-13 @ 10:24pm
We’re at the Marriott by the airport, getting up at 2:45am to catch our 6am flight to Costa Rica.
Night-night! Love, Beth & Joshua
Saturday 7-6-13 @ 2:30am
Got 2 hours of sleep, woke up, got ready and now I’m sitting here drinking coffee waiting for time for Joshua to get up.
Blessings to you! Love, Beth
Saturday 7-6-13 @ 9:42am
Feels like afternoon, but it’s 8:25 in Houston CDT. Costa Rica is on CST, so we will be 2 hours behind you. Our flight doesn’t leave until 11:30 (about 3 hours from now). We just found bacon and eggs for $14 for the 2 of us. Yikesters!
Love this Logitech keyboard. 🙂 Happy Mother’s Day to me.
Love you and talk to you soon! -Beth & Joshua
Saturday 7-6-13 @ 10:31pm
We are home from a lovely dinner and settling into our rooms for what will hopefully be a much longer night sleep than last night. 🙂 Two hours was not nearly long enough (nor was Joshua’s 3 hours), but I did manage to sleep on both planes (Joshua didn’t – he was too busy visiting with friends – can you imagine?).
We are at the Country Inns & Suites, so any contact info you had for the Radisson is not correct. That was a mix-up of dates. They had plenty of room at this hotel for this week and it’s the hotel they’ve stayed at all 7 years, so it is the natural choice.
You are all on the blog list, so you should be receiving a blog update each night. Now that we’re here, Joshua and I plan on putting our electronics away for a few days. It was great to talk to Ma, Papa, Jordan and John on Facetime tonight and also to Rick on iMessage. I’m glad we got to connect with you. But don’t be concerned if you don’t hear from us for a few days (other than the blog). I’m so glad that Rick was able to help Ma & Papa get Facetime working. Great job, Uncle Rick!! 🙂
Have a good couple days. Much love to you all! -Beth & Joshua
Monday 7-8-13 @ 12:42am
Or really good morning, as I think it’s 12:30 am your time. Getting out my iPad to set the alarm for the morning, and thought I’d send you and update. I don’t think a blog post went out last night and we just got home from dinner, so I don’t know what their plans are tonight.
Today was a great day. Long, but wonderful. The food here is so fresh and delicious and I had no idea that rice, black beans and scrambled eggs taste good together, but they’re fab! Joshua mixed his together too and agreed with me – yum!
We went to church where we’ll be working this week, they fed us lunch (delicious again!) and we started getting ready for the medical clinic tomorrow. SOOOO many medicines to unpack and repack (we could only take sealed containers through customs), but we got a big chunk of it done before it was time to go. We traveled all around San Jose in our 2 tour buses, briefly stopped at an open air market and road the buses up the steepest hills I’ve ever seen to get to our dinner destination. The view of San Jose was incredible – so many lights going on and on, twinkling and dancing in the distance. There was beautiful dancing at this restaurant and we didn’t leave until about 9:30.
We’re up at 6am tomorrow to meet with everyone at 7am, 7:30 breakfast and on the bus by 8:15, so I better sign off. It will be a busy day getting everything finished and ready to see 400 patients this week.
Love you all! Beth & Joshua
Monday 7-8-13 @ 11:47pm
I got to Facetime with Dad and Jordan for a few minutes before we left for dinner tonight. I tried John, but he had already left the store (it was 8pm your time). Jordan got to say hi to lots of people on our team of 57.
Started out the morning with a small stomach ache (I’m sure I ate some hidden gluten yesterday, but not much), running a few minutes behind (really tired still from getting home so late last night and not getting enough sleep), and a bit unsure of what our day would look like.
Our day turned out to be wonderful. I am on the welcome team for the medical team and our plan was to wash people’s feet and offer them a pair of flip-flops and maybe paint their nails if they wanted while they waited to see the doctor. We weren’t sure if anyone would let us wash their feet, but out of the approx. 50 people we saw (34 adults plus children), all except about 4 let us wash their feet. A couple women cried and I got to hug almost everyone. They don’t just give you a hug and a pat. They REALLY hug you and squeeze you. Really, I was the one who got to receive the hugs. It was just beautiful. I told them “Christo te ama” which means “Jesus loves you” and they all said “Amen, amen”. They were so sweet.
We spent the morning finishing up our 400 first aid packets, counting out pills and putting Spanish labels on everything. The first patients started coming around lunch time, so we stopped for lunch so that we could see them at their 1pm appt times (they were an hour early for the appts). Our original plan was to wrap up around 3:30pm, but it was just after 5pm before we were done with the last patients. Off to the hotel to freshen up quick before dinner (that’s when I tried Facetime) and then off to the restaurant. Everything is so fresh and wonderful. And when they say “fruit punch” it’s REAL fruit blended into a punch. Or they serve a wonderful peach tea that everyone loves (especially Joshua).
We arrived home about 8pm and shared together as a group until about 9pm. It was really neat to hear about everyone’s experiences on all of the different teams. The construction team got to meet the family today who is receiving the new house. We all get to go see the finished product on Thursday before we head up the mountain to go ziplining.
I better get to bed. They need us to come earlier tomorrow, so we need to meet at 6:45am. I got up too late this morning (too rushed), so I’m setting my alarm for 5:15.
Love you all! -Beth & Joshua (who is asleep up in his loft bed – hopefully he’ll get a full 9 hours tonight, from 9pm to 6am, as he was REALLY exhausted tonight. He even laid his head down on the dinner table when he was done and almost fell asleep there). 🙂
Wednesday 7-10-13 @ 12:10am
Started out the morning taking pics around the hotel and posting them on Facebook. I told Joshua he should be very proud of me for getting so much done on the iPad so quickly. 🙂 I tried to Facetime Mom & Dad (but I think I was too late – it was already 8:30 your time and I’m sure Jordan was already off to camp) and tried John, but he was probably busy with customers. Tried again tonight, as well as Rose & Mr Dean, but no answers. Thankfully, when we tried Rick & Delia, they were there and we got to chat for a few minutes before leaving for dinner. Tomorrow night we won’t be coming back to the hotel before dinner, so we probably won’t be able to Facetime at all unless we catch you early enough in the morning.
Today was a great day. We saw about 50 patients yesterday and I believe we saw 101 today. I didn’t wash nearly as many feet today, as I wanted to give other people a chance to experience it (VERY emotional for some people), but the couple people whose feet I did wash were very impactful. One dear woman kept crying every time I looked at her. We hugged a lot and one of our team members who spoke some Spanish came just in the perfect timing for me to ask her how to say that I am this woman’s “Sister in Christ”. When she told her, the woman’s face lit up and she grabbed me and hugged me even harder. She was so sweet.
I ended up making number tickets this morning and gave them to each adult as they came in to keep everyone in order better today. So, my job revolved around welcoming people and getting them set up with clipboards to start giving us their medical info. I also picked out a lot of flip-flops (matching up shoe sizes to what we have) and painted some nails.
Oh, Rick, I think the picture you saw of me in the blog was of me helping a woman pick out nail polish after having her feet washed. Our welcome area is a hallway, so it’s a bit crowded, but it works.
Our meals were all great again today and Joshua’s highlight of his dinner was having a lizard of some sort (which was on the ceiling in the restaurant) poop right onto his hand and his plate. 🙂 He laughed so hard that the tears were running down his cheeks. They offered him a new plate of food, but he was already done. And it rather spoiled his appetite too. 🙂 He wasn’t nearly as exhausted today as he was yesterday. He did manage to get about 9 hours of sleep last night, so that was great. My body just really wants to wake up at 4:45 (6:45 your time) and I don’t have time to fall back to sleep again, so I just get up. Makes for a more relaxing morning too having extra time.
We should be able to go see the completed house tomorrow after 4pm. It’s up and the roof is started. Our biggest challenge tomorrow is going to be something we have absolutely no control over – if people come on time for their appts. We are praying that they will come on time or early and that we’ll be able to see everyone before 4pm so that we can head to the construction site. I know we all want to meet the family and see the house. We haven’t finished until after 5pm today and yesterday, so we would appreciate your prayers for tomorrow. Thank you!
Sharing at our debriefing each night has been really special. And spending time with everyone through out the day has really bonded us all together. I really feel like we now have 55 more people in our family (plus Beth and Jimmy from Joshua Expeditions).
Mom – Beth is Beth Andersen, the sister of Don and Dennis Andersen. She looks just like Don when she talks! And Jimmy is from Costa Rica and tells us all about the country. We have decided that Jimmy’s bus (the smaller one) is the best bus and we all try to get on his bus whenever we can. No offense to Beth Andersen. 🙂 She’s great too.
Ok, time to go to sleep. Love you all! -Beth & Joshua
Thursday 7-11-13 @ 12:32am
I feel like these e-mails are getting later and later each night. And we just found out that we might be back REALLY late tomorrow, so don’t be surprised if there is no e-mail at all tomorrow night. Maybe I’ll just write quick to tell you we’re still alive. 🙂
Today was another amazing day. I spent most of the day charting kids’ heights & weights on growth charts. It was more relaxing that doing the welcome/intake/feet washing/flip-flop fittings and a lot of other people still wanted the opportunity to wash feet, so I was good with that. Later in the morning I had a chance to go up to the kids camp to see well over 200 kids in all different activities that our kids’s camp team had planned for them. I also took my camera today, so I got lots of great pictures of the kids and of people back in the medical clinic. I was really happy that I had waited to take pictures, as I really got to capture quite a bit of what I really wanted in a short amount of time.
Later in the afternoon, I got to go help out where the doctors work, filling prescriptions and saying goodbye to people as they left. Some of them had seen me at the beginning and the end and they looked confused – like I had a twin or something. 🙂 The pastor taught me to say “God bless you” (Dios te bendiga) the other day and I got to say that a lot as people were leaving, as well as “Christo te ama” (Jesus loves you). We’re all slowly building our Spanish vocabulary and it’s been really fun.
Sonja (our trip leader) and the camp director (Flory, which means “flower”) were leaving to go to the kids’ camp over in Guarari about 3pm and Nancy, our medical team leader, said I should go with them, as I was done with my job. Thank you Nancy! What a wonderful opportunity to drive over with a small group of women and one little boy from the neighborhood who Flory watches. We also called him Flory’s GPS, as he tells her how to get around that side of the city. 🙂 Joan (pronounced “Joe-an”) was his name and everyone loves him. When we got to Guarari, Joshua said, “Joan!” He was very happy to see him. What a special little boy. We all prayed for him later at the construction site, as Mariela really felt that he is going to make a huge impact in his life. He’s just that kind of kid. It was beautiful to hear Joshua join in on that prayer for Joan too.
We were only at the Guarari kids camp for a few minutes before it was time to head over to the construction site. The kids had been there since about 1pm and their time was up. We did get a few pictures before we left, but I can’t share them until I get home and can download them on the computer. When we got to the construction site, we were all overwhelmed by the fact that people live in these kind of conditions. Susan shared tonight that she’s been in a lot of proverty-stricken places in her life, but that city poverty feels much worse. Being in Africa out in the bush, at least you’re surrounded by nature. But in the city, it’s just filthy.
What a bright spot in the middle of all of this to see the newly constructed home. And we got to completely surprise the family with the furnishings. They had no idea that the house wasn’t empty. After everyone on the construction team had a chance to share, and the pastor prayed for them, they got to go into the house all by themselves. They screamed when they saw the inside. Screams of joy. We let them have some time and then came and knocked on their door as their first visitors. But it had rained through our whole ceremony, so our feet were pretty muddy and we didn’t want to dirty their brand new house, so just the construction team went in and the rest of us took pictures from outside. I’ll share those after we get home. It was just beautiful.
We went directly from the construction site to dinner and arrived back to go directly to our debriefing. Lots of people shared tonight and it was a wonderful meeting. The kids and teenagers commented that these people have so little, yet are filled with so much joy. Joshua agreed – why are they so happy? He concluded that it could only be the love of Jesus that fills their hearts with joy. I completely agree. Our “stuff” weighs us down, but these people are free to be generous with whatever God brings into their lives. It’s really beautiful to see.
Tomorrow is our last morning at the church and Beth Andersen warned us tonight that it will be very emotional saying goodbye and that we need to leave plenty of time to do so. She said “Saying goodbye takes a long time in Costa Rica”. 🙂 We have to leave the church no later than 1pm tomorrow to get to the zip-lining mountain on time. But God completely answered our prayers today and everyone who wanted to see a doctor got to see one and the rest of the medical team was on the bus by 4:05. Whew!! I know He will answer our prayers again tomorrow.
We got to talk to John on Facetime this morning and maybe we’ll have a chance to try Mom & Dad & Jordan again in the morning. We’ll see how it goes.
Love you all! -Beth & Joshua
Friday 7-12-13 @ 12:27am
As promised, I am writing to tell you that we are alive. 🙂 We did all 12 zip lines today and they were AMAZING! We finished up at the church this morning with a very emotional send off from the pastor and were off to the zip lines. Then we went from there to dinner & shopping and this time we managed to buy a few things (no bargaining this time).
We have to be on the bus at 6:30am, so I am going to bed now. Figure I need to get up at 4:45 to be ready on time. We take a tour bus 1.5 hours to the catamaran, then eat breakfast on the dock and then take a 1.5 hour catamaran trip out to Tortuga Island, where Pirates of the Caribbean was filmed. Tortuga means turtle. 🙂 We’ll be on the island for 5 or 6 hours and then we take the 3 hour trip back to the hotel. I’ll try to send another quick “we’re alive” e-mail tomorrow night. 🙂 We have a 6:30am flight on Saturday morning, so we’ll want to head straight to bed tomorrow night.
I just gave my SD card to Sonja for her to use pictures for the blog, so check it out Friday. You may see some of my pics from Thursday (the only day I took pictures). Just go to Sonja’s e-mail from a couple days ago with the link to the blog and then click “home” to get to the home page (which will probably show you today’s blog once it’s done). Please pray for Sonja. She looks exhausted. Too many late nights up working on the blog, thank you cards, and other trip details. No rest for a great leader.
It was great to talk to Mom, Dad & Jordan this morning on Facetime. I don’t think we’ll be Facetiming again until the airport, if I can find a wifi signal.
Love you all! -Beth & Joshua
Friday 7-12-13 @ 11:55pm
What a day! On the bus to Tortuga Island at 6:30, breakfast on the dock at 8:30 and to the island by about 10:30. Took more pictures today on my camera, so I’ll download those when I get home. The camera battery is now dead, so I’ll charge that at home too. It lasted just the perfect amount of time.
We snorkeled in the ocean (lots of beautiful fish!), road on a banana boat being pulled by a fishing boat (with a 75 HP Yamaha, may I add), ate a lovely 4 course meal on the beach (in the shade – very nice), rented a 2 man kayak for an hour so that the boys could paddle around and it ended up being used by about 6 people, which was really cool, played in the water, and watched as 9 people from our group got baptized in the ocean. Wonderful!
Then we got back on the boat for another 1.5 hour ride, which was really nice, and a 1.5 hour bus drive during which most people slept (you guessed it, I was talking the whole time). 🙂
Dinner, shower, packing and now heading to bed. Joshua was so exhausted that he took his shower and went right to bed with no dinner (he wasn’t hungry). I could only eat veggies, as we were having pasta tonight, but it was the perfect night for it. I wasn’t really hungry either.
Joshua fell asleep on my bed, so I’m up in the loft tonight. I just posted a quick pic on Facebook. Bittersweet tonight – happy to be going home, but really sad to leave. It’s been an amazing trip for everyone.
Should be home in about 24 hours if all flights go well. We should get into Detroit about 8:30 tomorrow night.
Riding on the back of a motorcycle is a lot like life. You have to hold on tight, stay steady, keep your eyes forward and don’t panic. If you freak out and cause the bike to crash, not only will you cause serious injury to yourself and the driver, but also to everyone around you. It doesn’t matter how scared you are, just keep looking forward and hold on tight. Don’t make any sudden movements. Don’t start crying. Just breathe.
I rode on the back of John’s motorcycle during the Blessing of the Bikes at Kensington Church several years ago. John decided to sell his motorcycle that day. Not because I freaked out (because I didn’t), but because Michigan roads, and people who text and drive and don’t pay attention, could all too easily take him away from his family. Thankfully, we walked away unharmed that day, but we really didn’t enjoy the ride.
I wish I knew then what I learned on Labor Day 2019. It would have been a much more enjoyable ride. Josh Isenhardt spoke at Kensington Church on Labor Day and his message was called “One Thing“. He encouraged us to add one thing, one small habit, that would change our lives over the course of the next year. Here’s that message:
And here’s what I wrote to Josh 18 days later:
Hi Josh, I wanted to thank you for the message you gave Labor Day weekend at Kensington CT. “Discipline” is one of my top 5 strengths on Strengths Finder, so I couldn’t imagine what small habit I haven’t already incorporated into my life at 47 years old and 25 years following Jesus. So, as you walked off the stage and the band came up, I asked, “Lord, what’s my action step?” And clear as a bell I heard in my head, “When I am afraid, I will trust in you.” And then the band started singing “Jesus, I will trust you. I know you never fail”, which I took as confirmation that I heard Him correctly. So, since that day, every time I start to get anxious, even just a hint of anxiety, I repeat to myself, “When I am afraid, I will trust in you” and it’s made such a big difference. I know I would have been in tears many times over the last 18 days, but because of that little sentence, He takes the fears away. Thanks so much!! -Beth
In Josh’s message, he recommended the book “Atomic Habits” by James Clear and I bought it. I’m about 1/2 way done, and it’s so good that I keep wanting to quote about every other page. Instead, I’ll just quote one thing and let you buy the book (or grab it from the library) and read it for yourself:
“Small changes often appear to make no difference until you cross a critical threshold. The most powerful outcomes of any compounding process are delayed. You need to be patient.” – Atomic Habits by James Clear, Chapter 1 summary (pg 28)
We need to keep on keeping on. If we do, we will hit critical mass and we will break the plateau. But we have to keep moving forward. “3 steps forward, 2 steps back” actually works out to 4 or 5 steps back because we’re erasing the power of compounding. Think of it like taking money out of your IRA instead of keeping the money there and letting the interest compound.
Beth Moore’s 2019 Simulcast, called “Strong Sisters” was on September 28th. If you know Beth, you know she had a whole lot to say that day, but one thing really stood out. I’ll paraphrase her:
“At what point will we stop doing what keeps un-doing us? … If we’re about to freak out again, are we grabbing hold of what Christ died to give us?”
Wm Paul Young, the author of “The Shack“, said something similar when interviewed by Chris Cook on his September 18th podcast of “Win Today“. Paul said:
“Who am I without my brokenness? I’m more comfortable in the prison that I know than the freedom that I don’t know that Christ offers me.”
I immediately asked myself that same question. Who am I without my brokenness? Who am I if I don’t freak out when I’m overwhelmed? What would it look like to be okay? To move on? To hold it together? To press on?
Last week the toilet overflowed twice in 12 hours. The only reason I wasn’t freaking out was because I kept repeating one thing over and over again, out loud, as I cleaned up the mess: “Thank you Jesus for indoor plumbing.”
When I woke up the other morning, this song was running through my head. I’m so thankful to Smile.FM for playing music that stays in your head and pops up at just the right time. Guess what the song is called?
Here I am In a river of questions Can I pour my heart out to a listening ear? I see this life Its valleys and mountains And I think of all the roads that brought me here I’ve questioned my reasons The life I’m living I’ve questioned my ability To judge wrong from right I’ve questioned all the things that I’ve ever called certain My race, my religion, my country, my mind
But the one thing I don’t question is you You really love me like you say you do You really love me like you say you do Hold me Hold me
I’ve questioned significance Meaning and relevance Does the work I’m doing really matter at all? Well I’ve questioned my friendships Alliance, dependence Who will still be here when I fall?
Only one thing doesn’t change Only one thing stays the same All I know at the end of the day is your love remains
October 19th is my 48th birthday, but I’m no longer on Facebook, so I won’t be posting this there like I have for the last 5 years. It’s funny. I found that Facebook was one thing that I really didn’t need.
Jesus is my one thing. He doesn’t change. He stays the same. His love remains.
It all started with a little boy named Kyle. His parents had asked me and John to babysit, even though we had no children of our own and had no idea what to expect. They explained that Kyle was very predictable and assured us that it would be an easy way to earn a few bucks. They were absolutely correct.
Kyle’s parents laid out the whole evening for us when we arrived. We would give him his last bottle of the night, keep him awake to play for a while, and then when he got cranky, it was time to put him down for the night. They explained that he would lay in bed and cry for just a few minutes and then would fall asleep and we probably wouldn’t hear from him again. We could spend the rest of the evening watching a movie, and that’s exactly what happened.
How did they know this about their son? Were they just incredibly “lucky” to have been given an “easy baby”? Or was it something else?
Turns out it was a program called “Preparation for Parenting” (aka “Babywise”). And when we found out that we were expecting our first child, we knew that we would be signing up to take the same class. And when Joshua was born on 6-14-02, we applied the same principles that Kyle’s parents had and Joshua turned out to be another “textbook” baby. He slept 8 hours at 5 1/2 weeks and 12 hours at 8 weeks (and still does, at 17 years old, when given the opportunity). 🙂
We went on to take “Preparation for the Toddler Years” and “Growing Kids God’s Way” and then started leading classes at our home. We were surrounded by like-minded parents, not only those who came to our home for classes, but also with fellow class leaders who got together once per month for dinner, training and fellowship. Everyone’s kids played together at these monthly gatherings and our community grew stronger together.
Jordan Rose was born in 2006 and she was not the “textbook” baby that Joshua and Kyle had been. However, the fact that she wasn’t sleeping helped us to figure out that she had food allergies. If we hadn’t known what was “normal”, it would have been much more difficult to figure out that something was “abnormal.”
In 2007, we moved from Clawson to Clinton Township and continued to lead classes. But it seemed that it was getting harder and harder for families to find babysitters, carve time out of their busy schedules and fight the traffic to get to weekly classes. In 2011, we opened a bait and tackle store and it became impossible to keep leading classes with John working two jobs. So, we stopped leading, but we kept applying the principles we had learned and occasionally we were able to attend National Conferences held by Growing Families International.
In 2017 and 2018, we attended the National Family Camp in Carlinville, IL. In 2018, they announced that all classes would now be available for free on their brand new website: https://growingfamilies.life . That was a beautiful step in the right direction, but something was missing. Watching videos from the comfort of your own home is great, but what about the community of like-minded parents?
“Participants watch each week’s video lesson prior to class time and then come together online using the Zoom® group meeting platform. Class time is dedicated to discussion, questions and answers, and additional teaching from experienced, certified class facilitators/mentoring coaches.”
Scroll down that page to get to “Most Popular/Viewed Short Segments” for information on the interrupt courtesy, couch time (preventing childhood insecurities), the five minute warning (encouraging first time obedience), gaining self control (folding hands), emotional touchpoints (love languages), choice addiction (“Red cup, blue cup”), bribing, threatening and repeating parents (“Are you listening to me?”), encouragement for dads, potty training and much more.
Here’s a little preview of what you’ll find there:
We often hear from our Sponsors about what sponsorship means to them. This message from Beth Baumhauer Bacarella was so special that we just had to share. Thank you Beth & John for caring so deeply for Karelo. His life will be forever changed because of you!
“There is something to be said for the simplicity of life in a third world country, as long as your basic needs are met. And isn’t that exactly what we’re blessed to be able to do for these kids? How much clearer can they hear from God than we can with all of our “first world problems” and distractions?
I look at Julius Murgor and all that he has accomplished because he had an education, he had his basic needs met and he had a strong enough relationship with God to persevere when it looked like nothing he was doing was making any difference at all. Little did he know that God was working the whole time and preparing him for what was to come. That’s what I want for Karelo: an education, his basic needs met, and a strong relationship with God to persevere. I believe that’s what he’s getting through NoChild.
I could make excuses and tell you that “I don’t have any money” because I live paycheck to paycheck. But that’s not true. I am blessed beyond measure. I have a business and a home and a yard and food and utilities and 3 vehicles in my household and 2 dogs and books and toys and Netflix and phones and computers and appliances and on and on. I have all of my needs met and a whole lot of my wants met as well. I am blessed. We are all so blessed. And I believe we are blessed to be a blessing.
And who better to bless than someone like Karelo? He’s a good investment. He’s an amazing investment in the Kingdom of God. And I believe that he knows that he is also blessed to be a blessing. I believe he’s going to pay it forward and make this world a better place. All of these kids are.”
Here are two photos of Karelo. The first one was taken in 2010 when Beth & John began sponsoring him and the second photo was taken this past year.
If you feel led to help change the world by changing a child’s future, I invite you to check out one of the many child sponsorship programs available: NoChild.org, Compassion International, and World Vision are just a few that I know of. If you already sponsor a child, if you’ve adopted a child into your family or if you’re a foster parent, THANK YOU! You are a blessing. You are making a difference. Don’t ever forget that.
I’ve always wanted my blog to be about encouraging, contributing insight and hopefully giving good advice. But Seth is saying that’s not good enough. And he’s right. If my words don’t incite action, then what am I writing for? I keep hearing the word “action”. So today, my 47th birthday, let’s talk about action.
I want to be an encouragement. I want to be someone who takes action. But, many times, I don’t believe I have the energy to accomplish what needs to be done. Do you ever feel that way? Like you want to make an impact and you want to enjoy the journey, but you end up feeling like you’re just trying to keep up?
How can I be creative, productive, helpful, encouraging and inspiring, when I constantly feel like I’m falling behind?I want to learn how to catch up and stay caught up so that I have excess energy to share.
“Action steps are my favorite thing because we live in a world where people try to make their words count for works. There’s a difference though. Either you talked about being there for someone, or you actually showed up for it. Even when the lies in your brain are deafening, you can make them weaker by stepping out into action.”
I love that.
“Even when the lies in your brain are deafening, you can make them weaker by stepping out into action.”
Yes, there are lies in my brain. I bet there are lies in your brain too. So, let’s dig a little deeper into the power of stepping out into action.
A few weeks back, our Pastor, Chris Zarbaugh, said that “Love is fundamentally more action than emotion”. He quoted what is probably the most famous verse in the Bible, John 3:16, stating that it doesn’t say, “God so loved the world that He felt it in His heart.” What good would that have done? No, it says “God so loved the world that He GAVE”. He did something about the love that He has for us. He gave His only Son.
The Apostle James said it this way:
“Suppose a brother or a sister is without clothes and daily food.If one of you says to them, “Go in peace; keep warm and well fed,” but does nothing about their physical needs, what good is it?In the same way, faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead.” -James 2:15-17 (NIV)
“As the body without the spirit is dead, so faith without deeds is dead.” -James 2:26 (NIV)
James clarified further, using Abraham as an example:
“You see, his faith and his actions worked together. His actions made his faith complete.” -James 2:22 (NLT)
I think it comes down to awareness (faith) and action (deeds). First, we need to be aware of what needs to be done and then we need to do it. We probably won’t do it perfectly and we certainly won’t be able to do it ALL, but we absolutely can do SOMETHING. Jesus said, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’ -Matthew 25:40
Thankfully, Craig Mayes clarified this by asking if Jesus said to help ALL of the least of these? “No, He said whatever you do for ONE of the least of these.” Just one. If we each take care of one thing at a time, one person at a time, it’s all going to get done. We need to see what’s in front of us, ask God what He wants us to do, and do it. Take action.
“Instead of wondering when your next vacation is, maybe you should set up a life you don’t need to escape from.”
And that quote incited action in Joshua. Check out his post (click the orange title above) where he explores 9 ways that we can craft this life:
1. Make Relationships a Priority.
2. Remove Unneeded Possessions from Your Home and Life.
3. Make Your Work Your Job.
4. Or, See Your Job as Part of Your Work.
5. Guard Your Time.
6. Take Care of Yourself.
7. Appreciate Your Season in Life.
8. Understand the Reality of Trials in Life.
9. Find Happiness in Your Every Day.
In point #6, “Take Care of Yourself”, Joshua says that “an empty cup cannot pour into another.” So, how can we take care of ourselves? Well, we know the answer probably isn’t taking a vacation. Maybe it has more to do with a “Stay-cation” (click on those orange words to read the article about “reclaiming the place you already chose to live”).
I’m so thankful that my “Stay-cation” this May, June and July included Joshua Becker’s 12-week on-line Uncluttered** class. I was astounded by the results. Our very first assignment was to formulate our “why” and this was mine from 5-1-18:
“I long for the day when the energy and inspiration I receive from my “clean spaces” is more than enough to fuel what I need TODAY to accomplish those energy-draining tasks that I continually look at and say “not today”.”
One of the best parts of this class is the real-time interaction with participants from all over the world via a closed Facebook page. On 7-21-18, I wrote this response to a fellow-De-clutterer’s celebration Facebook post:
“Just goes to show how de-cluttering truly creates energy!Yes, I know that energy is neither created nor destroyed, but only changes form.So, let me restate that.De-cluttering takes the energy that was wasted on telling yourself that some day the mess would be gone, and turns it into energy you can use today.Yippeee!!”
In one of the class Webinars, I remember Joshua Becker saying, “Don’t let “perfect” be the enemy of “better”.” Every single “better” is a little victory that your future self will thank you for.
So, here’s where we get to the action. What have you been thinking about but haven’t acted on yet? What one action would your future self thank you for?
Requesting a payment plan on that bill you’ve been dreading?
Telling someone you’re proud of them?
Finding a home for one item that doesn’t belong where it’s at?
Cutting up vegetables for a salad instead of eating that ________?
Donating an item that someone could use right now instead of keeping it in case you might need it some day?
Taking the dog for a walk?
Scheduling the doctor’s appointment that you’ve been putting off?
Balancing your bank account?
Visiting a friend?
Recycling the bottles and cans?
Asking her to marry you?
Putting away the laundry?
Cooking a meal for someone in need?
Getting out of bed?
One step. Accomplish one thing, grab onto the energy that brings and take the next step. It builds. It grows. And it’s not just addition. It’s multiplication. It compounds, like interest. But it all starts with one action step. Just one. Let’s take that step.
Today is the first day of the rest of your life. Let’s make it count.
And if you’ve never put your faith in Jesus Christ, maybe that’s the most important action step you could possibly take right now. Accepting the gift that God so freely gave, thanking Him for His forgiveness and putting your faith in action.
**When I wrote last October’s birthday blog post, “The Best is Yet to Come“, I had no idea that “the best” would start with the Uncluttered class. I’m so glad my 12 year old Jordan Rose encouraged me to pay the $89 to take the 12 week class. But you don’t have to pay $89. Now that I’ve taken it, I have permission to share with you the discount code to take the same class for 25% off: FF25. Now that I’ve paid once, I never have to pay again and I will definitely be taking the class again (for free). Join me! Truly, the best is yet to come. 🙂 https://my.becomingminimalist.com
We’re in the middle of a series at church called “Intentional Acts of Kindness” and we received “Pass It On” cards to prompt us to be thinking about who we could bless.
I came into church last Sunday to usher at the 2nd service, but my kids volunteer at all 3 services each weekend, so they had been there all morning. My daughter Jordan came up behind me and handed me this card (see picture below), saying that it was from one of her 4 year old’s mom, Dr Brynn. I thought it was her info so that Jordan could babysit for Brooks (the 4 year old), but then I read the card completely.
I’ll let the following emails tell the rest of the story. Jordan thought that, somehow, Dr Brynn had found out about her story, but we hadn’t told anyone about it. It was simply the prayer of a 12 year old young lady. 🙂
On Sun, Sep 23, 2018 at 3:12 PM Beth Bacarella wrote:
Hello Dr Brynn,
When Jordan brought me your “Pass It On” card this morning and I realized that it was for an orthodontic scholarship, we both started crying tears of joy. Then we told my parents (who were ushering with me this morning), and they started crying tears of joy as well. Let me tell you why.
Jordan has been seeing Dr Kabot in Clawson for the last 4 1/2 years. She has been wearing a retainer for all of that time and she gets it checked every few months. When we saw Dr Kabot in August, he said that she has done such a great job and “rocked that retainer” and that she’ll be done in December and could move on to braces, with much less work to be done due to using the retainer faithfully.
We knew that when we made the appointment to see Dr Kabot this coming December, we would have to tell him that we can’t afford braces. We used to have dental insurance that helped with the retainer, but now that my husband works full time for our bait and tackle store (and no longer has a job in the auto industry), we no longer have dental insurance.
When we got to my parents’ house in Clawson after seeing Dr Kabot, we had a long discussion about braces. Jordan was trying to figure out if she could some how finance them herself, maybe from babysitting jobs, as she had just taken a babysitting class at Henry Ford Hospital in August. But the more she thought about it, she wasn’t comfortable with committing to such a heavy financial responsibility, so she decided that she would go without braces and she would be ok. I told her that she could certainly pray that Jesus would give her braces if she really needed them.
And then you walked up to her this morning. Wow! Thank you!!! I can’t tell you what this means to Jordan. She’s been crying off and on at church all morning as she continues to share the story. We are all just blown away.
So, my question is, what’s our next step? We don’t need to wait until December. We can come see you whenever you’d like us to. I see that your office is in St Clair Shores, which is really close to us in Clinton Twp.
Looking forward to talking to you!
Thank you again, from the bottom of my heart,
On Sep 23, 2018, at 5:08 PM, Brynn Jezdimir wrote:
HI Beth and Jordan,
I am so happy to hear that you “accept” my scholarship! I am so excited that I had to stop making dinner and message you back!!!
Jordan…. since we started coming to Kensington Clinton Twp 3 1/2 yrs ago you have been so helpful with our kiddos (Brooks and Violet). We were able to come to church consistently when Brooks was a year old because you held him and as you saw today he still likes that! We have been touched by your serving in KKids and have always thought you were special. For a couple of years I have had the thought “wouldn’t be great if I could be Jordan’s orthodontist”… as a way to thank you for all that you do for so many.
I am an orthodontist today because I was a pre-teen with crooked teeth that was not able to have braces when recommended. I was crushed and felt really self conscious about my smile. Once I was able to go through the experience I was amazed at how my teeth and confidence could be transformed. Being able to help others in this way is a passion of mine that I get to live out. God is so good! And so today, I felt the nudge loud and clear during the service to use my card as a way to “gift you your orthodontic treatment”.
You can call my office in the morning and schedule a new patient exam with me 🙂 We can evaluate your development and best time to start. Bring your retainer in from Dr Kabot too! 🙂 Yeah!!!! I am so excited to help you and for you to meet my team!
On Sep 23, 2018 at 5:41 PM, Brynn Jezdimir wrote:
I should add that I am so impressed with the gifts God has given to you, Jordan. Just from my outsider perspective… he has equipped you with kindness, a giving heart, dedication, and faithfulness. I am so grateful to be a part of your smile journey. May God continue to bless you!!!
I sent the story to Dr Kabot, along with a personal note to him:
Here’s the rest of the story. 🙂
We were able to see Dr Brynn on Monday 9/24 after school and had her evaluation, pictures and impressions done. It was decided that Jordan would start with carrier appliances for her top back teeth with rubber bands, along with a clear retainer to keep the bottom teeth in place and 4 braces on her top front teeth to get that process started. She went back on Thursday 9/27 to have all of that done and the attached picture is her “after” shot with Dr Brynn. 🙂 Jordan is in pain, but she’s doing a great job. And we know the pain will subside soon.
Dr Kabot, we can’t thank you enough for your part in this story. If it weren’t for those 4 1/2 years with you and Jordan’s retainer, we wouldn’t be where we are right now. We’ve always enjoyed coming to see you and we’ll miss that. But your office is very close to my mom’s house, so we will be sure to stop in here and there when we’re in the area. 🙂
Please do share this story with the ladies in your office (and with anyone else you’d like to!), as we will miss coming to see them as well. Everyone in your office has been wonderful and we’re so thankful for the care and encouragement you’ve given all these years.
You haven’t heard from me in a while. Why? Well, I’ve been taking an on-line class. I’ve been posting a bunch on Facebook too, but you most likely haven’t seen those either, because I’ve been posting in the closed “Uncluttered” Facebook group. What a concept. Truly, that’s where the magic happened.
Tomorrow is the last day of this magnificent 12 week class. Part of our assignment for this week was to write a “looking back” email to the class creator, Joshua Becker. I wanted to share that email with you, along with the before and after pictures that I posted on Facebook today.
Thank you so much for this class. Wow. I hardly know where to begin.
How about here? I spent most of 2013 in a Celebrate Recovery step study, focusing on untangling the ties of co-dependency, depression and anxiety in my life. I spent a lot of time writing (and reading out loud) in that step study, and my “step-sisters” really liked what I had to say.
Then, in 2014, after many, many people over the years had told me, “You should write a book!”, someone finally said, “You should write a blog!”. Oh, I can do that. I started my blog on 7-16-14 and after a few posts, changed the tag line to: “Sharing everyday miracles to encourage those who struggle with depression and anxiety.”
The big break-through happened on my 43rd birthday, 10-19-14, when I wrote and posted “Moment by Moment.” After I posted it, I shared it with each person on Facebook who wished me a happy birthday. And then I continued to share it for the next year on each Facebook friend’s birthday.
Ever since then, I’ve written a “special” post for my birthday, following the same pattern I started in 2014. My post last year was “The Best is Yet to Come.”
And I just shared this on Facebook earlier today, along with some before and after pictures:
“When I wrote last October’s blog post, “The Best is Yet to Come“, I had no idea that “the best” would start with this class. I’m so glad my 12 year old Jordan Rose encouraged me to pay the $89 to take the 12 week class. But you don’t have to pay $89. Now that I’ve taken it, I have permission to share with you the discount code to take the same class, starting September 4th, for 25% off: FF25. Now that I’ve paid once, I never have to pay again and I will definitely be taking the class again (for free) on September 4th. Join me! Truly, the best is yet to come. 🙂 https://my.becomingminimalist.com”
When I found out that your class was $89, I had told Jordan Rose, “I have Peter Walsh’s book, “It’s All Too Much”. Why don’t I just read that and do what it says?” Well, I got that book in 2007. How’s that plan been working for the last 11 years? Jordan, a true un-clutterer at heart, thought it was wise for me to spend the money on the class, because then I would actually do it. I likened it to spending money on Weight Watchers, which has worked very well for me in the past. Get some skin in the game, and you’ll be motivated to take action.
And take action, we did. 🙂 Thank you again for offering this class. I already know what my 2018 “special” birthday blog is going to be about. 🙂
24 years ago today, a 22 year old girl and a 28 year old guy were married.
They weren’t going to have kids, and then they changed their mind. They had two kids, they started a business, they had their ups and downs. Lots of ups, but, boy, there were a lot of downs too. From a temperament standpoint, she’s a melancholy “quitter” and he’s a choleric “commitment freak”. Thank goodness he’s committed. No matter how many times she wanted to give up on life, he kept her going. But it certainly hasn’t been easy.
Thankfully, they kept up with date nights. It helped to get out and unwind. Six months ago, date night was a Switchfoot concert.
And after that Switchfoot concert, they waited to see if Jon Foreman would play an after show. Sitting in the car, refreshing Twitter, no updates, they decided to leave Meadowbrook and head home. Jon must be spending time with his Michigan family tonight. However, on the way home, one more Twitter refresh, and the after show was announced. And this guy, he turned the car around. What a guy! 🙂
They arrived in time to catch the last 2 songs out of 3. And the third was “24”. She grabbed her iPod and captured the moment. The video and lyrics are posted below.
Today, on this 24th wedding anniversary, the words of this song are so perfect:
I am the second man now And You’re raising the dead in me
Second man? Who is that? Well, Adam was the first man and Jesus was the second man. Adam brought death, but Jesus brought life. Like Adam, we are physically born into this world just once. But we can be born again, a “second birth”, a spiritual birth. This is raising the dead in us; Jesus Christ living inside us. All we have to do is ask.
You see, Jesus didn’t come to make bad people good. He came to make dead people LIVE.
The girl and the guy, they weren’t bad people. But they were still people. Human beings, born in the spiritual deadness of Adam, ruled by pride and selfishness. Jon Foreman says it this way in “24”:
Twenty four reasons to admit that I’m wrong With all my excuses still twenty four strong
Sounds like marriage to me. I don’t think that girl and that guy would still be married today, 24 years later, if they hadn’t asked that Second Man to come live inside of them.
Is there dead inside that needs raising in you?
That’s why He came.
That’s why He died and rose again.
To raise the dead in us.
“If the Spirit of him who raised Jesus from the dead dwells in you, he who raised Christ Jesusfrom the dead will also give life to your mortal bodies through his Spirit who dwells in you.”
-The Apostle Paul’s letter to the Romans, Chapter 8, Verse 11 (English Standard Version)
And if you’d like to read more about what happened between 24 years ago and now, check out this post: Joshua the Prophet
Twenty four oceans Twenty four skies Twenty four failures Twenty four tries Twenty four finds me In twenty-fourth place Twenty four drop outs At the end of the day Life is not what I thought it was Twenty four hours ago
Still I’m singing Spirit take me up in arms with You And I’m not who I thought I was twenty four hours ago Still I’m singing Spirit take me up in arms with You
Twenty four reasons to admit that I’m wrong With all my excuses still twenty four strong
See I’m not copping out not copping out not copping out When You’re raising the dead in me Oh, oh I am the second man Oh, oh I am the second man now Oh, oh I am the second man now
And You’re raising these twenty four voices With twenty four hearts With all of my symphonies In twenty four parts But I want to be one today Centered and true
I’m singing Spirit take me up in arms with You You’re raising the dead in me Oh, oh I am the second man Oh, oh I am the second man now Oh, oh I am the second man now And You’re raising the dead in me
I want to see miracles, see the world change Wrestled the angel, for more than a name For more than a feeling For more than a cause I’m singing Spirit take me up in arms with You And You’re raising the dead in me Twenty four voices With twenty four hearts With all of my symphonies In twenty four parts. I’m not copping out. Not copping out. Not copping out.